Thanksgiving and Advent!

It is hard to believe that Thanksgiving has come and gone (twice for us). This is the first time that I have been away from home on Thanksgiving, and it was a little weird. November 26^th was just a normal school day here in Liberia. Holly and I had peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for our big Thanksgiving meal. I definitely missed turkey and dressing! Although the day was not full of good food and family, it was still a time when I was reminded of how thankful I am.

I called my family on Thursday afternoon and talked to everyone as they passed the phone around. After nine conversations and being on the phone for over an hour, I was exhausted. However, I loved that I was able to catch up with each of them and it made being away a little easier. I am so thankful for my entire family and their constant love and encouragement,

I also received several emails from friends last week. I even talked to some of them on the phone! I got a wedding update from Brooke, and heard all about her big day. I talked to Holly and heard her engagement story and the beginning stages of wedding plans. These conversations helped me feel connected to some of the things I am missing. I received countless emails from friends just thinking of me on the other side of the ocean. This was so encouraging! I am very thankful for my friends, who have continued to support me throughout this experience.

I have something new to be thankful for this year… my new friends and students here at Ricks Institute! On Monday we went to dinner with the girls on the basketball team. It was so nice to fellowship with the girls outside of practice. The night just added to the bond that our team already has. Check out the pictures! I wish you could all meet my new friends and see how wonderful this place is. I am constantly inspired by their stories, challenged by their perseverance, and motivated by their willingness to learn. These relationships are changing my life. I am so thankful for these people and what they are teaching me. I feel blessed to call them friends!

I learned something about myself in the last few weeks. I realized that sometimes I get so caught up in what is next and lose sight of what is right in front of me. There are already things about coming home that I am very excited about. I am looking forward to seeing my friends and family that I miss so much. I am pumped about going to the beach for vacation this summer. I can’t wait to move back to Birmingham, and hopefully get a job teaching again. I am looking forward to going back to school and pursuing what God is calling me to next. With all of this said, you can tell that there is a lot of planning and details involved. If you know me well, you know that I am a huge planner and tend to be very detail oriented. Sometimes I like this about myself and other times I do not. Although there are things about returning home that I am very excited about and have begun planning, there are things here that are just as exciting. Holly and I have been in Liberia for 105 days. In the blink of an eye 1/3 of our time here is gone. This has given me some perspective, and made me realize how much I will miss this place and these people when we leave. So much is happening here and it is passing by so quickly. I am making a point this Advent season to take advantage of today, even with the plans of tomorrow in my head. I am trying to focus on the here and now by being still and resting in the presence of God.

The other day I caught myself saying, “it sure doesn’t feel like it’s almost Christmas.” The more that I thought about this, the more it frustrated me. What is Christmas supposed to feel like? During this time of the year I imagine cold weather, lots of Christmas shopping, presents, Christmas movies, Christmas music, parades, parties, Christmas tress, decorated houses, family gatherings, and Santa Claus. Wow… that is a whole lot of stuff. I realized that I relate Christmas to all of these things, and that bothered me. For the first time I don’t have all of these things, and this time of the year seems different. I am SO thankful for this. I needed a wake up call, and a reminder of what Christmas is all about. This year I have decided to approach this Advent season in a whole new way. Yes, part of it is because I am forced to, but it is also because I want to. As I anticipate the coming of Christ, I will look for the presence of Christ in the world around me right now.

2nd period down, and 4 more to go!

TESTING TESTING TESTING... whew!

You may be thinking it is just a test, but for these students it is 50% of their period grade. It is a lot of pressure, especially for the little ones. It is hard to believe that 6 weeks out of the school year are spent taking tests. That can make you brain hurt!

My students did really well this period. However, this does not mean that everyone passed. They learned very quickly that things are going to start getting harder. First period was spent doing a lot of review, and I think most of them got their hopes up that the whole year would be that easy. Little did they know, things began to get harder, which meant they had to work harder. Some of them chose to do just that, while others developed the "I don't care" mindset. It has been a struggle motivate all of my students to work to their full potential. I wish that were something that was easy, but unfortunately that can be one of the biggest challenges as a teacher (even in the US). I am hoping that this period will serve as a wake-up call to some of them.

It became very evident to me this period that some of my students are having a hard time keeping up. I have really started to notice a big gap, and it is getting harder to meet the needs of each individual student. For example, I have 3 students who cannot read or write, and that puts them way behind the rest of the class. They have not mastered skills like letter-sound correspondence and blending, skills they should have learned in kindergarten. I have been trying to work with these students individually and outside of class, but it just is not enough. I know that the best thing for these students is to go back to first grade next semester and build their foundation, and then repeat second grade next year. Unfortunately, that is not as easy as it sounds. Repeating a grade here is looked down upon even more than in the US. It is hard to convince parents that it would be in the best interest of their child. I am in the process of talking with Olu about this situation, and will hopefully have the opportunity to talk with their parents in the next few weeks. Please pray for this situation, and that my actions and words will be seen and heard in a loving way.

As for the grade results... I had two students make straight A's this period, and I am looking forward to taking them into town for a treat next week! I also had about 10 students make all A's and B's!! Once again, I am a proud and happy teacher!! Even those that failed certain subject areas are still improving, and that is what is important!

As a teacher, one of my goals is to build confidence and self esteem in every child. I look for small ways to do this every day. I am really looking forward to the end of the semester when I will be able to take my entire class out for ice cream. Thanks to a good friend, Emily Holladay, for providing the money for us to be able to do this! This will be a wonderful and exciting way for us to close the semester.

As for Holly and I... we are doing well. As most of you know, we both got sick last weekend, but have recovered. Stomach virus + no running water = yuck! Yeah, that was probably too much information. Anyway... thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers!

A little bit of the US, and time on our own in the city!

Yesterday Holly and I spent our first day in Monrovia by ourselves. We took advantage of the opportunity and made a whole day out of it. We left school at 9:30am and were dropped off at the US embassy, where we attended a town hall meeting for all Americans living in Liberia. The meeting was held in the Public Affairs building, inside the library. We took our seats in the room with about 40 other Americans. After about 10 minutes we were both freezing. Our hair was sticking up on our arms and we were covered in goosebumps. We tried to take advantage of the air conditioning, but we realized that we are starting to get used to not having it. The US ambassador and the consular spoke to us about the role of the US embassy, and how we would/could interact with them if necessary. Most of the information were things that we already knew, but it helped to put faces with names, and make some connections that would be helpful if we ever had some kind of emergency.

The meeting was over around noon, and we decided to walk to Mamba Point, which was maybe a 1/2 mile away. On the way we stopped and looked at some African artwork that was beautiful. We are already starting to make a mental note of some things that we want to get before we go home. As we walked down the road, with the beach to our right, it occurred to us that we were on our own. It was a good feeling of independence! We went to the Mamba Point Hotel and enjoyed a delicious lunch! We had pita and humus, cheeseburgers and fries, and dessert. It was a lot of food, and we were completely full when we were done. After lunch we stayed at the hotel for the afternoon and enjoyed the air conditioning, comfortable couches, and the consistent internet. Mr. David, the driver at Ricks, picked us up at 4:30pm. We went home and enjoyed a restful evening, still too full to eat dinner.

We do not have days like this very often, but when we do it is a nice treat. We were even reminded what a flushing toilet sounds like, although it almost seemed foreign to us. It also took be a minute to realize what was different when I washed my hands in hot water, then it occurred to me that it was the hot water, haha. The ambassador said that it generally takes about 3 months to become adjusted to a new place, and as we are closely reaching our 3 month mark, I believe this to be true. Liberia is starting to feel like home in many ways. Sometimes I forget what air conditioning feels like, or I look for a bucket of water in a bathroom that doesn't need one. There are still days when I miss some of the luxuries at home, but those days are becoming fewer and farther between.

We are the Dragons, the Mighty, Mighty Dragons!

After the first round of the Super Cup Tournament on Tuesday, October 27th, the lady dragons knew it was time to kick things up a notch. We practiced hard every chance that we got. 5:00am conditioning and afternoon practices were longer and seemed to be filled with more intensity. The girls knew that winning the Super Cup would not be easy.

Last year, the girls made it to the finals, under the leadership of Coach James Blay, who is now in the US, studying at Mercer University. They were defeated by a Catholic school in Monrovia called Don Bosco. Many of Don Bosco's girls play for the national team, so needless to say, they are really good. After winning our first game of the tournament, we were told that we would be facing this team again for the finals. The girls were nervous, but very motivated and determined to win.

On Thursday night, we had a poster making party with the girls. We made paper hats, posters, wrist bands, and even confetti (we already had the confidence that we were going to win, and would need to throw confetti when we celebrated after the game). This was a really fun time, and a chance for us to just hang out with the girls. We even ended the night with a surprise skype session with their former coach, James Blay. The girls LOVED this, and so did James. It was great motivation and encouragement before their big game.

On Friday, the school day started with the inauguration of the newly elected student council president and his officials. The excitement only increased when the assembly was over, and the girls got dressed in their uniforms. It is amazing how much this game united the student body. It reminded me of my four years in high school, and being involved in competitive sports.

We loaded in the vans and headed for the sports commission in Monrovia, where we took on Don Bosco. We got started on a rough start, although we knew we were capable of winning this game. The girls seemed nervous, and it began to show on the court. Our offense seemed off, and we were not making simple lay-ups. We called a time-out pretty early in the first half and got re-focussed. The girls fought hard for two 15 min halves, and were constantly trailing Don bosco by a close margin. In the last 2 minutes of the game, the lady dragons took the lead, and the crowed stood to their feet. The cheering was so intense that I could barely hear myself as I was talking to the players. When the buzzer went off, the game was tied 36 to 36. The clock was set for a 5 minute over time. The girls were exhausted, but they knew the prize was worth 5 more minutes. The lady dragons led the over time, and won the game 43-39!! WE WON THE SUPER CUP!!! The fans rushed the court, and we cheered and hugged. This was a huge mile marker in Ricks history. The Ricks students, teachers, staff, administrators sang the school ode with so loud and with so much pride. I felt so proud to be a part of this school family!

The week could not have ended on a more positive note. We say that Ricks Institute is the best school in Liberia, and now the rumor is that the girls basketball team is the best the country! What a great feeling for the girls, their coaches, and the entire school!! I can't wait to take the girls to receive the trophy next week!!

Swimming, Basketball, and Bible Study... What A Great Week!

After a long and exhausting week, we got to spend all day Sunday relaxing at the Kendeja Resort. We went with Ottolee, her two children, and her mother. The resort has a special on Sundays for $25, that includes all day at the pool and unlimited access to the buffet. It is a great deal! We got to walk down on the beach, swim in the pool, and eat good food all day long. It is definitely what we needed after the week that we had.

On Tuesday, we took the girls and boys basketball team to Monrovia to compete in the Super Cup Tournament. After a good fight, the boys were defeated 60-66. I was so proud of the girls, who played an awesome game, and won 37-25. We have been working so hard to prepare for this tournament, and it all paid off. The girls played their hearts out, and fought until the very end. Isatta, one of our post players, made a shot at the buzzer, and the crowed went crazy. The team ran to the center of the court and celebrated together. I felt like I was re-living my high school days of competitive sports. Coaching the girls basketball team has been a very fun and rewarding part of my ministry here at Ricks. I am really enjoying building relationships with the girls, and investing in their lives on and off the court. Next Friday, November 6th, we will compete in the finals. We are playing a very good team that the girls lost to last year. Despite the nervousness of the girls and the coaches, I think we have the ability to bring home the trophy this year!

On Thursday night, we had bible study with the other women who live on Ricks campus. This was our third time attending. It has been a great way for us to form relationships with the women. We normally start by singing two songs (some hymns and some African songs), then have a time of prayer. Sometimes this can take an hour. Then someone delivers a short message from a particular passage of scripture. We have been talking a lot about different women in the bible, and how their stories can relate to our lives. Then we take up an offering. As we give our money, we also recite a scripture verse of our choice. We close the evening with more singing and prayer. I have enjoyed being a part of this group, but there are definitely times when a 2 1/2 hour bible study can be exhausting. This is another different experience that I am grateful for, but it has definitely taken an open mind and open heart. The best part about this weekly bible study has been the friendships that we are forming with the women!

Now it is Friday, and another week is over. Only 2 more weeks left of instruction in the second marking period! I am definitely ready for the weekend, and a break from waking up at 4:40am. Next week is going to be busy, and hopefully just as good as this week!

There are bound to be bad days...

The last two days have been very emotionally and physically draining. I think part of it is that we have been here for 2 months, and the excitement of being in a new place is slowly going away. This is starting to become home, and along with that comes all the “real life” emotions. It is hard to explain, but hopefully you get my point. We are beginning to experience some of the difficulties that are a part of ministry.

Some unexpected things have happened in the last few days that have just kind of caught us off guard. I find myself trying to be understanding and patient, but some days it is very hard.

Olu has been in the US for the last ten days, and the flow of things just seems off without him here. Holly and I are trying to deal with a problem that has been frustrating and out of our control, but fortunately we were able to get in touch with Olu for some advice. Although I cannot share this situation with you at the time, please pray that everything will work out, and that we won’t be faced with this issue again.

I am also learning that no matter where you go in the world, you will agree with some people and disagree with others. I wish we could just agree to disagree in all situations, but sometimes that is not possible. Please pray that I will be able to put myself in others shoes, and see from their perspective.

I think that these things have also caused me to get a little homesick. I think some of it is culture shock, and the fact that life really is so different here. I really thought this would hit when we first got here, but as we have gotten settled, things have become a little more challenging. Also, one of my best friends is getting married this weekend, and it is hard being away when all of my friends are celebrating together.

I knew that these things were going to happen while we were here, but there was really nothing to prepare me for it. I am learning a lot from this, but it is still not easy. Please keep praying that God will continue to show and remind us of our purpose here.

I know that I will be out of this slump soon, and that we will fall back into more slumps this year. It is a good thing that the good days make this all worth it! I guess that is just a part of ministry! Whew!

The Best of Days!

Monday was one of the best days that I have had. I took 5 of my students into Monrovia to get ice cream! These students made straight A’s for the first marking period. I was so proud of them, and told them I wanted to do something special to celebrate their hard work. So, on Monday after school we got in the van, along with Mr. Jayran and Rev. Kilby, and went to Monrovia. Even the van ride into town was a big deal to them. A few of them don’t ever get to go into Monrovia, so they were soaking it up. They moved from window to window, observing and commenting on all that was happening. They asked so many questions, and were so interested in all that they were seeing for the first time. Rev. Kilbry drove us by the University of Liberia, the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (where the president works), and Capital Hill. The students were so intrigued by these places.

Our final destination was the Mona Lisa, where we got ice cream. Their faces were priceless when they walked through the door of the restaurant. They were most excited about the big screen TV. We stood at the ice cream counter for about 10 minutes, observing all of the flavors. They each came up with some interesting combinations of flavors, but not one bite went uneaten. They LOVED it, and I loved watching them. We had a great time sitting and talking together. It was so nice to spend time with them outside of school. We talked about what they want to be when they grow up, and a little bit about where they are from. Most of the time they just looked around the room and commented on things that they saw. There was not a moment when we were not smiling. Several times during the conversation, one of them would say, “Thank you so much Ms. McInvale.” My heart kind of skipped a beat, and it made all of the challenging moments in class worth it.

The drive back was just as much fun. We stopped a couple of time so that Rev. Kilby or Mr. Jayran could run an errand. During one of those stops we bought some plantain chips and bagged water from a street vendor. It is so amazing to me how much the children know about buying things on the street. It is one thing that I am continuing to learn how to do.

I wish that I had the money to take all of my students out and do things like this more often. I realize that I cannot, but I think that will make the few times that I can more special.